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Surgeon Appointment coming up on Friday..

Hi Everyone,

I am up at the computer for a few minutes so thought I would take a sec and write a few words. Thanks for the cards and gifts 🙂 It really means a lot to me to have that support and contact with everyone. Of course, being laid up has given me an opportunity to write to everyone at work at both sites, as well as cards or letters to everyone in my address book, so that has helped me pass the time. I am about to call my surgeons office to let them know of my left incision (the one on the outer aspect of the leg that had the 40 staples in it, has opened in 2 spots and both holes have drainage. Seems to be old blood mostly but I worry about infection so want to know if I should be on some prophylactic antibiotics. I’m seeing the surgeon on Friday, so I’m not sure if they will let it continue to drain or stitch me up again. 🙁 the holes are about 1/2-3/4 of one cm each). They came open in the area where, when my family Dr took out the staples, one area just gushed out some blood down my leg, so I think there is a big hematoma in there that needs to evacuate. (just my guess). Both areas had a hard bit sticking out of the incision and I know from my breast cancer incision that it was a piece of suture that would dissolve. Anyways both area’s look look almost like a fistula hole (say it isn’t so) but I will call the surgeons office and let him know. I’ve been holding the wound together with a couple of bandaids, and changing them every couple of days.

 

The incision on the right side of the knee had split open after the last of the steri strips had come off, and it wasn’t deep or bleeding, so we pushed the incision together and it seems to have worked. I’ve had no bandaids on it for a few days now so fixed that side, but the left side continues to worsen so I think the surgeon is going to have to do something there…

 

I’ve been spending most of my days sitting up in my recliner. I make it to the bathroom or bed with an old lady walker 🙂 I don’t have a ton of stamina with it, but I’m doing alright. 🙂 I can do my hair standing at the laundry sink and there is a small bathroom down here so I can do a wash there. He has brought a bed down into the family room, as I am not able to do stairs right now but he’s thought of everything and is taking good care of me.

 

The pain in my leg now is mostly stiffness and when I do the exercises. It hurts behind the knee on outer left when I try to lift my leg behind me by bending my knee. I started at about 45 degrees flexion in the knee (not great) but with physio it has started improving each time. I have gone to 50 degrees, then 70, then 77 degrees and then 80 degree’s… not normal yet, but it’s a struggle to gain a degree with the swelling and stiffness I am having. I can’t wait to see the surgeon and see if this brace can at least come off at night so I’ll be able to sleep easier. I have a feeling it won’t, but I’m hoping anyways.

 

I am going to physio in a few minutes. Just heard back from surgeon’s office. Because I told them it looked more like old blood and not infected looking, I am OK to wait and see him on Friday, but if it looks infected at all, to call the office and he will see me sooner. So, for now, I’m going to wait. 🙂

 

I’m off to get ready for physio, better take a couple of pain pills…  and I will post again if any new developments… maybe after I see surgeon on friday.

Take care everyone and thanks all for your kind comments and support. Special thanks to Maurice, without whom I could absolutely not manage.

…Pam…

Friends visit

I had 2 of my co-workers, (but I will call them friends, for that is what they are)  visit today for a while. They spent some time with me sitting in the living room just gabbing about things going on, telling me stories and made me laugh. It was a nice visit, and they brought a big bristle board with stickies on it and notes from so many people at work wishing me a happy valentines and get well wishes, and they brought food as well, so Bonus!

Helen brought some home made red pepper/tomato soup and some buns, and Laila brought some Naan and some Chicken Methi and an eggplant dish. Maurice and I just enjoyed half of the soup, and will have the rest for tomorrow for lunch (thanks Helen!) and we will have the east Indian dishes tonight for dinner (thanks Laila!). The soup was really swell, and we wolfed it down. I know Laila is a great cook so I’m looking forward to having the dinner tonight to taste the flavours.

So far I’ve had visits from several friends at work including  Maggie, Gen, Jeanette, Sue, Gloria L, Donna S, Cheryl W, Deb C, Emely and Helen R and Laila. Plus I have had emails from so many people, it’s really swell to have such support around us. Thank you everyone who has come over, who has emailed, who has phoned, who chipped in for the gifts from both sites, and who has cooked for us. You all have been just awesome and I’m in awe of how great everyone has been. Like I say, I may have breast cancer, but I can’t help but think I’m a lucky woman. I’ve a man who loves me, a furbaby who loves me, family who love me, and great friends and co-workers, a job I love…  a home I love, .. life is good.

…Pam…

Update Sept 19th Max

Well this morning Dr. Shawn from the Scottsdale Veterinary Hospital called to see how Max was doing. It is so great to get this kind of caring and follow up. Max has made steady gains under this Vet’s care. Today we got the order to stop the predisone, so that is great news. We are to watch for any signs that he has worsening of his symptoms, so we will do that.  Max still has some weakness,  but he’s improving.  I want to say a word about the Vet’s. I know I keep gushing about how good they are,  but I believe in  saying when something is wrong and why,  and I certainly believe in saying when something is so very right. To that end:

I feel impelled to just say how totally impressed we are with Shawn and with the entire staff at the Scottsdale Veterinary Hospital. We could not have asked for more friendliness, helpfulness, empathy or support.

It’s been an amazing ride with our Maxie, but we felt good knowing we were the homecare part of the team, and that Shawn was in control of the situation and monitoring max’s progress daily. Night and Day from the other Vets, where we got ” well he’ll either make it or  he won’t”  WHAT?  That’s what you are going to say to someone coming in with the trauma of what happened…we felt like that vet was cold and heartless. NOT so at the Scottsdale. We saw thorough professionalism. We saw caring.

We were outside the door when they did Max’s blood work and catheterization weeping because we could see them calming him and the site of him in the arms of the vet assistant, she was stroking his face and talking to him and had him in her arms.. THAT was the care we were looking for. We knew from the first assessment Shawn did with Max that we had found our new vet. Thank you Shawn and Thank you too to all of the other staff who have called us for frequent  updates about Max, monitoring him, whether it be Shawn, a different Vet (I think they have 5 vets at that hospital) or any of the office staff or vet assistants.

KUDO’s to all of the staff, we certainly appreciate all of your help.

…Pam…